Book Club Principle 5: Solve YOur Solvable Problems

When you choose a life partner, you choose a particular set of flaws, faults and foibles. Every marriage has conflict. This week we learned 5 keys to solving our solvable problems:

1.    Use a soft start up

2.    Learn to make and receive repair attempts

3.   Soothe yourself and each other

4.   Compromise

5.   Be tolerant of each other’s faults

David and Lynn Cherry share their thoughts on Chapter 8 of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work <>  along with a real life conflict in the video blog below.

We’d love to hear from you. How did the tools in this chapter help you address a problem in your marriage?