Not just their salvation message, but the testimony of how He came through. The testimony of how He held them or brought them out of something.
Recently we were going to have a rather large get together in our home and I was a bit worried about how some of the guests would get along. Since the event was at our home I felt a little bold and resolved that since it was at my home it was up to me to set the mood. I was determined that as much as it was up to me I would include everyone. I wanted a spirit of unity among all of these beautiful people that I love so much. Thankfully that is how the night went. Something shifted in my thinking after that. The lighting of a room can set the mood, but the light in the room can shift the atmosphere. Two scriptures come to mind for me
12Jesus once again addressed them: "I am the world's Light. No one who follows me stumbles around in the darkness. I provide plenty of light to live in."
12For we are not wrestling with flesh and blood [contending only with physical opponents], but against the despotisms, against the powers, against [the master spirits who are] the world rulers of this present darkness, against the spirit forces of wickedness in the heavenly (supernatural) sphere.
None of us has the ability to control another person but we do have the choice of what we will agree with. I want what I bring into every situation to be in agreement with what God is wanting me to do. Without a doubt His heart for me is to show His love, His compassion, His grace and mercy. When I bring that atmosphere with me into any situation it can only brighten things up.
This new way of thinking has allowed me to really take notice of whats going on around me. If the mood is yuck I want to shine the opposite in the room. Bringing hope to the hopeless, comfort to the hurting, peace to the weary. The last thing I want to do is go into a room full of worry and agree with it. No I acknowledge it's there and consciously choose not to agree with it but ask God what He wants shining in the middle of it. I only want to partner with what He is wanting to do not add to any negative mood that's there.
Do you find yourself taking on negative attitudes easily?
Consider asking God about those ideas before adopting them as your own.
Thank you for your wisdom in this area.
A healthy marriage with a fresh start in 2012! A prayer and hope for many couples. They start out with new things to begin to strengthen their marriage such as date night, lunch together, prayer time, etc, but often times it is not starting new things that gives us a healthy marriage, but leaving old things. I am faithful to pray for God’s plan for me and my marriage, but to be honest; it can quickly be interrupted with thoughts of “what about” or “remember when”. My prayer and hope is then replaced with thoughts of the past and there I am….stuck. I believe that God wants to do mighty things with marriages, but sometimes being stuck in the past can keep us from moving forward. There is no escaping certain events or actions that cause hurt and pain in a marriage. No one is perfect and those issues must be addressed and forgiven, but we can’t stay there.
In the words of Emerson Eggerich in his amazing book Love and Respect, women tend to go “historical” and bring up the past. Unfortunately, we, as women, have been “blessed” to have a good memory. There are times I will recall certain things to my husband and astonished that he has no memory of the event or conversation. A good memory is not always a good asset. I believe that Satan wants nothing more than for us to stay in our past. Dwelling on the past distracts us from fulfilling the future plans God has for our life and marriage. If we are not careful, we become stuck there. Once issues have been addressed, don’t look back, you are not going that way. To move one, we need to forgive in two areas:
- Our Past Failures
Once we have taken responsibility and reconciled, it is time to learn from the mistake and focus on the future. Continuing to focus on past failures is not allowing God to give the grace and mercy that He freely gives. We can not bring honor to Him when we continue to think about our self? No, we do not completely forget; but when we forgive ourselves and take the opportunity to learn and grow, we can experience more of what God has to offer us.
Philippians 3:13-14 says:
The one thing I do, however, is to forget what is behind me and do my best to reach what is ahead.
- Failures of our spouse
There comes a time when we must remember the love and grace our Father in heaven gave to us. He expects nothing less than to extend that to others as a gift unto Him. Forgiving is not erasing past hurts. It is making the decision to let go of the sting so that it is no longer part of our life.
Matthew 6:14-15 says:
For if you forgive men when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.
If God is gracious to forgive us, how can we not humble ourselves to extend grace to others…….even our spouse.
So this year instead of thinking of what you need to start new with many hopes and dreams, I challenge to you pray and ask God what you need to let go so that He may bless you with a new marriage.
I began working for my current employer at the age of 18, my first job out of high school. I earned my first promotion at the age of 19 leading people who were 1 – my parents’ age and 2 – multi year veterans with the company I had been with for only a year. Going from peer to leader in the same building was a unique challenge. I studied the management binders in the office, could quote polices and section numbers, and above all used the leadership skills God had given me to continue to excel in my job. I was the youngest supervisor in a 150-mile radius and there were some people who didn’t let me forget it. No one left baby food on my desk, although I’m sure it crossed a few minds, it was the attitudes, tones and eye rolls that said it all and frankly, it was hurtful.
Let no one look down on your youthfulness, but rather in speech, conduct, love, faith and purity, show yourself an example of those who believe. 1 Timothy 4:12 (New American Standard Bible)
Remember when you’re hired by a business it’s because they see something special in you. You have a skill, quality or trait that they want to incorporate into their business. Be open to learn from your new co-workers who come from so many different backgrounds. If you’ve been hired to be the new boss, treat people with respect and show them God’s love in your every day managing of the business.
Young or experienced, when you are exuding Godly qualities, it is tough for people not to be drawn to you. As Christians we are called to be good role models and with the media romanticizing sex tapes, gossip and girls behaving badly we have our work cut out for us.
Our goal should be for people to say, “I’ll have what she’s having.”
Stoplight Prayer: Father in heaven thank you for giving me the opportunity to show your love and faithfulness. Help me to lead by example and not fall into the traps set our enemy.
Still hungry? Learn a lesson from Jesus in John 13:12- 15.
The 53rd Grammy Awards did not disappoint this year! The music, the clothes, the performances..wow! If you missed any of it I am sure MTV will certainly run it again for you if you look for listings. But what I am sure you haven't missed is the fashion on the red carpet and stage! Every show, every website and morning/evening show have all had something to say about the designs and costumes that made the Grammys a real show. Here are our picks.
Most eye catching
Rihanna captured our attention on both the stage and red carpet. She transformed from a shocking white frock to a Dior masterpiece on stage for her performance with Eminem. No one can say Rihanna didn't catch their eye. She is always beautiful!
Gwyneth Paltrow and Jennifer Hudson are the two that have transformed the most this year. Gwyneth emerged as a singer to take notice of and Jennifer created a new, healthier body. Plus, the fashion choices rocked! I love the pink earings with the black hot pants!
Best Dressed Non-nominees
Wow! Nichole Kidman and Selena Gomez smoked the red carpet with their nude tones. Sophistication with long locks made both women two of our favorites!
Unforgettable, strange, genius, what were they thinking? Whatever your take on Katy Perry and Lady Gaga, you certainly won't forget them. Katy donned angel wings on her back while Lady Gaga percolated in a womb the entire night until she emerged for her performance 'Born this Way.'
Keri Hilson is definitely one of my favorites! I love the color, the length, the style and to top it off the hair! All of it came together so much she deserved a Grammy just for her fashion choice! Our winner!
We can't leave the Grammys without mentioning our favorite best dressed male Bruno Mars. Taking a cue from the Rat Pack in the 1960's Bruno strutted down the carpet with class. Then to top the look off, during Bruno's performance our Television screen turned black and white! Amazing!
Saturday morning devotionals begin on Oct. 2. The writers are smart, courageous and they're women who are honest about life. Meet two members of the CW Devo Team.
Kala has been working her way up the corporate ladder in the retail industry for 15 years, starting off hanging clothes in the stockroom and now an Operations Manager for 271 stores across the Central United States & Mid-Atlantic Area. Kala has grown up along Interstate 35, spending her younger years in Laredo, TX, graduating from high school in Austin, TX and now residing with her family in Dallas, TX. Her parents pray she doesn’t continue to follow the highway any further north! No one would have ever thought that Kala would have ended up with a job crunching numbers & monitoring budgets, especially since her first loves were the theatre and her Victoria’s Secret credit card.
This young career Mom doesn’t have much free time on her hands, especially with her very active 3 year old daughter Ava in the house. Her favorite thing to do during what little spare time she has, is to cook; which works out quite well for Eric, her fabulous husband of 5 years, who loves to eat.
“There’s nothing quite like chopping vegetables after a long day!”
Nichole is an eternally curious, art loving, forever hopeful young woman living in Austin, Texas with her husband, Christopher, and their beloved dog, Laila. She’s a student at the University of Texas and is earning her BA in English Literature. She believes in the power and beauty of literature. Her inspirations include C.S. Lewis, A.W. Tozer, Elie Wiesel, and countless musicians. She dreams of assigning papers over 'Fahrenheit 451' and 'Lord of the Flies' to high-school students, adopting a baby, and adding a few more dogs to the family. Born with a beautiful voice, Nichole’s a songbird who’s been able to minister to others through her singing at Shoreline Church. Chris and Nichole love catching live music downtown, watching Modern Family, laughing until they cry, and exploring all that God is and does.
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